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Do Stay At Home Dads Get The Respect They Deserve?


Stay-at-home dads can usually all agree that society as a whole has a tendency to somehow look down upon them as being second class citizens. It’s no surprise that a lot of fathers who choose to work from home try to couch the fact that they do so in terminology that suggests they are telecommuters for a larger company or that they’re somehow doing it as a favor to their “employer.” Stay at home mother’s who own and operate their own home-based businesses don’t face this kind of scrutiny.

A lot of the problem stems from the fact that society typically views men as being the so-called “hunter gatherers.” As a result, whenever we see a guy who happens to be a father staying home to earn a living from his home based business while taking care of the kids, we sometimes view this person as being defective or somehow incapable of going out and getting a traditional job.

In short, stay at home dads who work from home typically don’t get that much respect. That can change, however, if people start to notice that you really seem happy and that you don’t appear to be living off of food stamps. In other words, they’ll start to see that you’re living the kind of life they’ve dreamed about. After all, who really enjoys the process of waking up early in the morning only to have the drive to rush-hour traffic to arrive at a job that is disliked?

As more and more fathers realize that they can exchange value for money while working from home, people and society as a whole will start to look upon the entire situation very differently. While it’s true that many people will still sometimes assume that a guy who chooses to stay home with his kids and work from home is really only interested in sleeping late and watching TV all day, more and more will understand that this is a legitimate decision that should be respected and perhaps even admired.

Take heart, work at home father! You’re not alone. Far from it. You’re choosing to live life on your terms, and nobody can ever take that away from you.

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Debunking The Myths Of Being A Work At Home Dad


There are a lot of myths and misconceptions surrounding what it means to be a work at home dad. Let’s debunk some of these myths and set the record straight.

People sometimes think that if you’re a work-at-home father, you’re somehow unable to go out and earn a living the traditional way. Nothing could be further from the truth. In fact, given the uncertain economic climate in which were living in, even the safest corporate jobs can vanish overnight. So pursuing the traditional career outside of the house doesn’t necessarily mean that a person will automatically be successful.

Another ridiculous misconception that exists is the men who choose to be work-at-home dads are somehow less qualified to be fathers given the fact that they are so busy running their business. In other words, what people are trying to say is that a work-at-home dad is more likely to neglect the needs of their children. This is so outrageously false that it’s almost laughable. If anything, work at home dads are even MORE sensitive to the needs of their children given the fact that they get to spend more time with them than if they left the house everyday to work elsewhere.

Some people think that a dad who chooses to work at home if simply being irresponsible and lazy. People think that the father will simply sleep in every single day and watch TV and never really do any work. When you have children, your life changes. The overwhelming majority of fathers quickly realize that they are responsible for the health and well-being of the little baby who they brought home from the hospital. While it’s true that there are some irresponsible fathers out there, to suggest that work-at-home dads as a whole are simply looking for an excuse to stay in bed and watch TV is incredibly insulting.

Here’s the bottom line: fathers who choose to work from home deserve respect. In many ways they endure burdens that are sometimes significantly greater than the burdens endured by their counterparts who go to work at an office or at some other traditional workplace environment.

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