Posted on 20 July 2010. Tags: lifestyle, respect, stay at home dad, work at home
Stay-at-home dads can usually all agree that society as a whole has a tendency to somehow look down upon them as being second class citizens. It’s no surprise that a lot of fathers who choose to work from home try to couch the fact that they do so in terminology that suggests they are telecommuters for a larger company or that they’re somehow doing it as a favor to their “employer.” Stay at home mother’s who own and operate their own home-based businesses don’t face this kind of scrutiny.
A lot of the problem stems from the fact that society typically views men as being the so-called “hunter gatherers.” As a result, whenever we see a guy who happens to be a father staying home to earn a living from his home based business while taking care of the kids, we sometimes view this person as being defective or somehow incapable of going out and getting a traditional job.
In short, stay at home dads who work from home typically don’t get that much respect. That can change, however, if people start to notice that you really seem happy and that you don’t appear to be living off of food stamps. In other words, they’ll start to see that you’re living the kind of life they’ve dreamed about. After all, who really enjoys the process of waking up early in the morning only to have the drive to rush-hour traffic to arrive at a job that is disliked?
As more and more fathers realize that they can exchange value for money while working from home, people and society as a whole will start to look upon the entire situation very differently. While it’s true that many people will still sometimes assume that a guy who chooses to stay home with his kids and work from home is really only interested in sleeping late and watching TV all day, more and more will understand that this is a legitimate decision that should be respected and perhaps even admired.
Take heart, work at home father! You’re not alone. Far from it. You’re choosing to live life on your terms, and nobody can ever take that away from you.
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Posted on 15 July 2010. Tags: family, lifestyle, stay at home dad, work at home, work at home dad
Many people sometimes wonder whether or not there is a material difference between a work at home mom and a work at home dad. In truth, there are a lot of similarities. However, due in large part to the traditional emphasis that has been placed on women to be the primary caretakers of children, it can sometimes be a little bit more challenging for a woman to work from home while at the same time trying to raise small children. This is especially true when the children are quite young and need significant amounts of attention.
On the other hand, there are a lot of single fathers out there who feel as if though they are on equal footing with their female counterparts. This is because they find themselves doing many of the things that a stay at home mother would be doing. One added pressure that men often feel comes from the fact that society generally views them as being the primary breadwinners of a family. As a result, they are typically under extreme amounts of pressure to produce financial results that are positive.
Another critical difference that oftentimes gets overlooked stems from the fact that work at home fathers sometimes have a harder time finding people with whom to socialize given the fact they are probably outnumbered 7 to 1 or even 10 to 1 when compered to work at home moms. As a result, work at home dads can sometimes feel extremely socially isolated from their peers.
Everybody can agree on one thing — both men and women who happen to be parents that choose to work from home have significant amounts of flexibility that simply cannot be matched by those people who choose to work at a traditional job. That said, it takes a lot of courage for a man to choose to work from home. It is socially more acceptable for women to work from home. It is not unusual for a man to be looked down upon by his peers whenever he reveals that he is a work-at-home dad. Of course, it’s ridiculous that people would think this — and ultimately, there might even be a bit of jealously involved. After all, wouldn’t we all prefer to work from home if we could?
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