Posted on 20 July 2010. Tags: lifestyle, respect, stay at home dad, work at home
Stay-at-home dads can usually all agree that society as a whole has a tendency to somehow look down upon them as being second class citizens. It’s no surprise that a lot of fathers who choose to work from home try to couch the fact that they do so in terminology that suggests they are telecommuters for a larger company or that they’re somehow doing it as a favor to their “employer.” Stay at home mother’s who own and operate their own home-based businesses don’t face this kind of scrutiny.
A lot of the problem stems from the fact that society typically views men as being the so-called “hunter gatherers.” As a result, whenever we see a guy who happens to be a father staying home to earn a living from his home based business while taking care of the kids, we sometimes view this person as being defective or somehow incapable of going out and getting a traditional job.
In short, stay at home dads who work from home typically don’t get that much respect. That can change, however, if people start to notice that you really seem happy and that you don’t appear to be living off of food stamps. In other words, they’ll start to see that you’re living the kind of life they’ve dreamed about. After all, who really enjoys the process of waking up early in the morning only to have the drive to rush-hour traffic to arrive at a job that is disliked?
As more and more fathers realize that they can exchange value for money while working from home, people and society as a whole will start to look upon the entire situation very differently. While it’s true that many people will still sometimes assume that a guy who chooses to stay home with his kids and work from home is really only interested in sleeping late and watching TV all day, more and more will understand that this is a legitimate decision that should be respected and perhaps even admired.
Take heart, work at home father! You’re not alone. Far from it. You’re choosing to live life on your terms, and nobody can ever take that away from you.
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Posted on 15 July 2010. Tags: family, lifestyle, stay at home dad, work at home, work at home dad
Many people sometimes wonder whether or not there is a material difference between a work at home mom and a work at home dad. In truth, there are a lot of similarities. However, due in large part to the traditional emphasis that has been placed on women to be the primary caretakers of children, it can sometimes be a little bit more challenging for a woman to work from home while at the same time trying to raise small children. This is especially true when the children are quite young and need significant amounts of attention.
On the other hand, there are a lot of single fathers out there who feel as if though they are on equal footing with their female counterparts. This is because they find themselves doing many of the things that a stay at home mother would be doing. One added pressure that men often feel comes from the fact that society generally views them as being the primary breadwinners of a family. As a result, they are typically under extreme amounts of pressure to produce financial results that are positive.
Another critical difference that oftentimes gets overlooked stems from the fact that work at home fathers sometimes have a harder time finding people with whom to socialize given the fact they are probably outnumbered 7 to 1 or even 10 to 1 when compered to work at home moms. As a result, work at home dads can sometimes feel extremely socially isolated from their peers.
Everybody can agree on one thing — both men and women who happen to be parents that choose to work from home have significant amounts of flexibility that simply cannot be matched by those people who choose to work at a traditional job. That said, it takes a lot of courage for a man to choose to work from home. It is socially more acceptable for women to work from home. It is not unusual for a man to be looked down upon by his peers whenever he reveals that he is a work-at-home dad. Of course, it’s ridiculous that people would think this — and ultimately, there might even be a bit of jealously involved. After all, wouldn’t we all prefer to work from home if we could?
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Posted on 14 July 2010. Tags: respect, stay at home dad, work at home, work at home dad
There are a lot of myths and misconceptions surrounding what it means to be a work at home dad. Let’s debunk some of these myths and set the record straight.
People sometimes think that if you’re a work-at-home father, you’re somehow unable to go out and earn a living the traditional way. Nothing could be further from the truth. In fact, given the uncertain economic climate in which were living in, even the safest corporate jobs can vanish overnight. So pursuing the traditional career outside of the house doesn’t necessarily mean that a person will automatically be successful.
Another ridiculous misconception that exists is the men who choose to be work-at-home dads are somehow less qualified to be fathers given the fact that they are so busy running their business. In other words, what people are trying to say is that a work-at-home dad is more likely to neglect the needs of their children. This is so outrageously false that it’s almost laughable. If anything, work at home dads are even MORE sensitive to the needs of their children given the fact that they get to spend more time with them than if they left the house everyday to work elsewhere.
Some people think that a dad who chooses to work at home if simply being irresponsible and lazy. People think that the father will simply sleep in every single day and watch TV and never really do any work. When you have children, your life changes. The overwhelming majority of fathers quickly realize that they are responsible for the health and well-being of the little baby who they brought home from the hospital. While it’s true that there are some irresponsible fathers out there, to suggest that work-at-home dads as a whole are simply looking for an excuse to stay in bed and watch TV is incredibly insulting.
Here’s the bottom line: fathers who choose to work from home deserve respect. In many ways they endure burdens that are sometimes significantly greater than the burdens endured by their counterparts who go to work at an office or at some other traditional workplace environment.
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Posted on 13 July 2010. Tags: stay at home dad, work at home dad
Have you ever considered being a work-at-home dad? Many fathers like the idea of being able to stay home with their children while at the same time being able to earn a livelihood. In principle, it sounds like a wonderful idea. Not only will you be able to spend more time with your children, but you’ll also have the flexibility to be able to help out around the house. But the really big question that most men have to ask themselves is whether or not being a work-at-home dad really makes the most sense for them and their situation.
You really need to be very self disciplined. In other words, just because you are working at home does not mean that you can spend all of your time playing with your children or doing house chores. You really need to set aside specific hours during the day in which you will be working to earn a livelihood. Striking an appropriate work/life balance can be extremely tricky for fathers who work at home. This is especially true if you have small children who typically require more attention than older children.
Another factor that you need to keep in mind is the fact that when you work for yourself at home, you typically do not have the same kinds of benefits that you might have if you worked for a traditional company. In addition, there is a social aspect that many people have a hard time adjusting to when they work from home. Look at it this way. When you go to work for a company, you are usually around other people during the day. When you work at home, you typically have to find a quiet place to get your work done. This makes sense because it can be very difficult to concentrate if the television is on and people are talking. As a result, there is a certain degree of social isolation that occurs.
You need to really look at your own situation and determine whether or not working at home makes the most sense for you. Most people have a little bit of trouble adjusting, but after a while, they have no trouble whatsoever and are very happy that they made the decision.
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